So what’s going on guys? This past month has been rather hectic for me. My computer has been down and I have been dealing with a lot of mess in my life but that is just part of living.
What am I supposed to do, cry about it every time a little upset comes up?…ok, I can do that but if I did, I wouldn’t tell you would I? 🙂
But anyway now I’m back and ready to kick ass!
Today, I want to talk about something that goes beyond being a pickup artist, player, pimp, and you name it, and that is the idea of being a "social natural."
In a way, a social natural encompasses all of these, just being a naturally cool, social guy who can pickup and having multiple women in his life and a circle of cool guy friends who admire you. It can be symbolized by water; you flow in every different social situation gracefully that can come up and navigate through it.
But let’s break this down a little bit.
Being a social natural is an art in itself, being able to recognize the patterns of your interaction within the field, the things you say and do, and the result/feedback you get from them, and then calibrating your next response for the desired outcome you want.
What I mean by this?
Well, we all know being cocky and funny are some of the many magic ingredients to getting the chicks attracted to you.
Let’s say you are talking to a gorgeous hottie who was raised in the high octane life of LA, and respond to that as a challenge and becomes curious about you, now your social feedback for your pattern of response next time to a typical LA chick will be this same cocky and funny frame.
Now try that on a more conservative, small town girl type, and she gets repulsed by your cocky and funny attitude, but you think to yourself if that worked for the LA chick, it should for this girl also, right? But she is a different type of girl, so your social feedback you received from this interaction tells you need to calibrate either by increasing the funny or decreasing the cocky.
I will get more into this in the future, but if you want to get the full in depth knowledge of this, I highly recommend you check out The Art of Social Natural now.
Talk to you soon!